Why can a narcissist cheat on you and somehow still see themselves as the victim when you do the same? Narcissistic relationships are often full of double standards, entitlement, blame-shifting and hypocrisy. They expect loyalty from you while giving themselves permission to break the rules they created for everyone else. If you've experienced narcissistic abuse, this may explain why their reaction to being betrayed can seem completely different from how they treated you. #narcissisticbehaviour