Dating advice for women — don’t put out on the first date. Listen, I’m not saying don’t sleep with the guy because there’s some bloody rule about when you should or shouldn’t do it. Do whatever you want. I’m just saying, if you actually like him, make him wait a bit. See if he comes back. See if he actually puts some effort in. See if he’s interested in YOU and not just getting you into bed. Because if you don’t put out and suddenly he’s not interested anymore… well, there’s your answer, isn’t i